My name is Larry Lamade.
My son Peter is a senior midfielder on the Duke men’s lacrosse team.
On Thursday December
21, 2006, I made
the following remarks to the New York City Duke Lacrosse Alumni and Friends. So much has
happened since that time that I was not sure that I could make the same remarks
to you tonight. They seemed a bit dated
even though such a short period of time had passed, but so many things had
happened.
-Nifong dismissed the rape charge but kept in
place the allegations of sexual assault and kidnapping.
- The North Carolina
bar association filed ethics charges against Nifong stating that he engaged in
“dishonesty, fraud, deceit or misrepresentation”
-The North Carolina conference of District Attorneys issued a public
letter demanding that Nifong recuse himself from the case
- Editorials
demanding Nifong’s resignation as district attorney or his recusal from the
case appeared in numerous publications including:
The Charlotte Observer, Greensboro News-Record, the News and Observer, Wilmington Star, Washington Post, Washington Times, L.A. Times, Newark Star-Ledger, San Diego Union-Tribune, New York Daily News, and Rocky Mountain News and most importantly,
- Duke University extended offers to reade and collin
to return to the university.
Damn, I thought if one speech could generate all
those positive steps, I ought to give it again.No, seriously, i am giving the speech again because it accurately
describes the reasons why the Association for Truth and Fairness was created in
the first place. It also unequivocally confirms the belief by the boys and
their parents of the boys’ innocence from day one and the reluctance of others
to share this belief in spite of overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
Dorothy Rabinowitz in today’s Wall Street Journal said, “no one could have imagined, when the
story began last march, how soon and completely that bit of shorthand – “the Duke University scandal” – would be transformed. We did.
These were my remarks:
I
have never been more confident in telling you that the allegations made against
Collin Finnerty, Reade Seligman, and David Evans are totally false.When did I know this? I knew it when my son called me on March
21, 2006. He said that he needed to talk to me about a
police investigation of a Duke lacrosse team party.Before I could say anything in reply, he
said, “don’t worry dad, nothing happened.” I’m sure that this same unqualified
statement was repeated 46 other times by members of the Duke lacrosse team to
their parents.You were undergraduates
once, probably attended similar parties. You wouldn’t have lied to your parents about allegations that serious.
After the incident
became public, a flurry of activity took place as various interested parties
weighed in with their thoughts and opinions condemning the members of the Duke
lacrosse team. What then was known as
the Duke rape is now rapidly becoming known as the Durham district attorney scandal.
The boys on the
team, knowing the allegations were false, were not afraid to cooperate with
authorities.The 3 boys who leased the
house gave statements to the police. The
rest volunteered to give statements as soon as they had a chance to inform
their parents of the situation. Shockingly, they didn’t have that opportunity. A subpoena was received compelling the boys
to produce non-testimonial evidence – oral swabs to get their DNA. Nonetheless, having no fear, they
once again willingly complied with the subpoena. No one flinched because they knew that there
would be no match between their DNA and the accuser’s. The District Attorney, Mike Nifong had
weighed in with a similar assertion. He
said that the DNA would exonerate the innocent.Little did he know that the DNA would prove that they were all innocent.
Even though the DNA results were dispositive as to the boys’ innocence, the District Attorney changed his tune after the results were returned. Nifong asserted that condoms must have been
used. He made that assertion, even
though unbeknownst to the public, the accuser had previously told him that
condoms had not been used.
Nifong was facing an
upcoming primary election.If he had
lost, he probably would have been terminated from the office that had employed
him for the past 27 years. Eighteen months
earlier, when Nifong’s predecessor had been granted a judgeship, the governor
had appointed him as Interim District Attorney for Durham County. Nifong’s first act as DA was to
fire the senior trial Assistant District Attorney. This former ADA was now his main competition in the primary, and she
was ahead in the polls.
Last Easter weekend
was one of the worse moments in my life as it was for 46 other families.Nifong had indicated that he was going to
indict at least 3 lacrosse players the week after Easter.All the lacrosse families knew the
allegations were false, but all had to retain attorneys. We felt like the men of the USS Indianapolis
in WWII after their ship was sunk. They
bobbed hopelessly in the waters of the pacific for days while the sharks
indiscriminately picked them off.Innocence did not mean that the boys were not vulnerable.We had to protect our sons.
It was a Kafkaesque
moment. The allegations were false, but Nifong
said that he was going to indict 3.Your
son could be indiscriminately indicted.Multiple
choice – no wrong answers. Were you praying
that your son not be indicted? Of
course.Would there be any relief if he
were not indicted? No.Collin, Reade, and David could just have
easily been Peter, Ned, and Matt. We
were all in this together.The truth had
been trampled; the rank unfairness of the situation obvious.
How could I
help? Being an attorney, I knew that the
legal bills for Collin, Reade, and David would be sizeable especially if it
went to trial.I also realized that all
of the other families – most of whom could little afford it – had incurred
legal fees as well. Should I create a
defense fund? That was obvious, but I
thought that it should be more. We
wanted to create an enduring testament to these boys who had been treated so
unfairly. Our idea was to create an
entity that would raise money to help these boys defend themselves but in the
future, we also wanted to help others who were subjected to similar injustices.
Idealistically, I also thought that this
entity might try to prevent such egregious misuse of power from ever occurring.
What has happened to these boys should
never happen to anyone again.
We called the entity
the Association for Truth and Fairness. ATAF
for short. Truth and fairness are simple principles but hard to live by for
some.Both of these principles are embodied
in the simple phrase, “do the right thing.” These boys have been abused because those with power and influence have
not done the right thing. Failing to do so in the future will inflict further
harm as long as this fiasco continues. As truth and fairness are simple principles so is “doing the right thing”
a simple concept, but so difficult for the unscrupulous to abide by especially
when they have ulterior motives. Doing
the right thing is more easily explained by describing what it does not mean:
It does not mean:
-damaging others for personal gain
-opting for the expedient rather
than the ethically correct course of
action
-prejudging individuals
-protecting an image in detriment to
individual rights
-being disingenuous
- failing to admit when you are
wrong
To date we have
quietly raised$750,000. We have used this money to defray some of the
expenses of the indicted boys.We
estimate that the total legal fees will be in the 4.5 to 5.0 million dollar
range. Our task is formidable.We would
also like to reimburse the legal fees of the 9/11 firemen, the single mothers
and other parents of Duke lacrosse players whose sons could not attend Duke if
it weren’t for scholarship help. All of these lacrosse parents have dug deep to
pay defense costs.
These boys have been
scarred in ways that money can never compensate.However, when it comes to legal fees, we can
help in some small way.It is the boys
on this lacrosse team who have been violated. No one else.Please do the right thing and make a contribution to our association.
Thank you for
listening to me.For those who are
interested, I have written information on how to make your contribution.
Those were my
remarks.Let me add one post
script. We now have a web site where you
can make a contribution by check or credit card.I was skeptical when I asked our website
consultant if we could get the site name, “truthandfairness.org.” It is a sad commentary, but good for us that
the site was instantly available. It just underscores the lack of such virtues
in the world today.